I personally think this stinks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have three children with my partner of 15 years, he had an affair and left like all those that think the grass is greener he wanted to return. I said no and have since tried to get the financial situation sorted out 2 years later i am in the same boat. Three small children, i pay the mortgage but i would like to move and can not, he wants half the house and half of the savings i have saved since we seperated. He sees the children intermitantly and pay £5 pw in maintenance ( self empleyed) and as only paid that since the csa took him court. £3k later in sols fees and no further nearer to a settlement. Tell me how this is fair, i work, i juggle my life around the children who are under the hospital, am tired and sometimes feel like there is no hope.